A Bit of a Difference!

John coaching in the Scarborough Shark's Open League

(notice how closely the girls are paying attention to him)

It can be hard to coach a girl's hockey team at the house league level.  It can be really hard coaching a bunch of girls in the 15 to 20 age group (Open).  All the coaches in the Open level are middle-aged males, not only do they have a hard time remembering what it was like to be a teenager, they're pretty much stymied when it comes to how a teen girl thinks.  They didn't get teen girls when they were teens, they're sure not going to get it now, that they're middle-aged.  Not only are they handicapped by mindset and age, they coaches have to extremely careful about entering the dressing room, along with watching any undue physical contact with the players (how many male coaches have you seen swat their male players on the bottom without a second thought?).  Nevertheless these stalwart group of men are out there twice a week, making line ups, making sure everybody gets a fair amount of ice time and opening and closing the bench door.  It takes a special kind of man to venture into that realm.

Craig MacTavish coaching the Edmonton Oilers

(notice he's getting a little more attention, but there's still players who

aren't paying attention - shows hockey player are pretty much the same)

When you think about it, NHL coaches have it a bit easier.  Sure they have to deal with the media frenzy and some huge player's egos.  Yet they can enter the team's dressing room at will, they don't have to knock frenziedly on the door, unanswered, since the girls are too busy talking, giggling and squealing to hear the knock.  An NHL coach doesn't have to worry if he'll have enough players on Halloween (John's game was defaulted since only 2 players on each team showed up).  The typical NHL star doesn't send out an email to their coach an hour before the game, saying they're parents won't let them play because they haven't finished their homework (I agree with the parents - homework first).  Lets be honest, the NHL coaches don't have to deal with players having their period and accompanying mood swings.

Alright, I admit that the NHL coaches are under huge pressure to produce winning teams, but when was the last time they had to deal with someone not wanting to be on their team, because they thought they didn't look good in a certain coloured jersey?  Of course, there's the issue of trades, these are carefully scrutinized in the NHL, but in girls hockey, if a girl is traded to another team in order to balance out the league, well then her friend has to go with her and if her friend has a friend ....

I'm not saying that the NHL coaches don't deserve their heft salaries, but maybe what I am saying is that the volunteer behind your daughter's bench deserves a lot of thanks - maybe buy him a beer at Christmas!